Strong Roots Strong Life…Really?

Someone once told me that if you could have done that then you would be living a more blessed life. I gave it a deep thought and scanned my life from childhood to present. It didn't convince me much to go with the statement because I believe that you are the controller of your life and if you have that will and passion to alter your life, no matter what the situation is, you will at any moment.

Not everyone of us is coming from a filthy rich background so how can we assure that our roots are strong. With basic education, basic living conditions from past, many of us are performing remarkably well in present. And the reason is? These are our efforts, our trust on ourselves and positive mindset which made us confident to build a strong foundation on the roots which are not much engrossed inside our life's base.

Never complaint about what you have not able to get in your past. Rather, focus on what you can add now to your personality to add value on what you are currently up to. There are immense opportunities to grow and learning has no age limit. Grab it, add it to your portfolio and shine bright at each stage of your life.  

EXCUSE ME! I AM NOT PROUD, I AM ASHAMED OF OUR NATION

Definition of India has changed now. Gone are the days when we used to feel proud on our nation, our rich culture and humble hearts. Daily throbbing incidents happening in and around our surroundings demolishing our faith in our own nation. Insecurities are on rise. Nobody is safe at any place. The nation known for its diversity has now become a place of adversity. The places like schools, temples, mosques, courts and police stations have become the favorite destinations for criminal minded to commit most heinous acts. Either an infant or a kid or a young and old woman, no soft corner for anyone. In fact, all are the major sources to quench lust for pedophiles and rapists who are mushrooming every nook and corner of our beloved country. No help, no ray of hope from anywhere. Governments are busy blowing their own trumpet and applauding on their achievements. Media busy arranging argument sessions of political parties on any sensitive issues and serving to us by adding spices as they feel tasteless (real news) news cannot bring TRP to their channels. Writing tweets and showing that you care and you really feel hurt, sorry to say, cannot bring solutions to these ever-growing sufferings. Being a girl, I feel, India is not a place for females. They are the most ill-treated human beings on this portion of earth which we call ‘Dharti Maa’.

Heart Vs Mind

Why the Mind and Heart always behave in opposite direction? Why we never get that ideal situation where we get the agreement of both? Does anyone have these answers?

Imagine! if the heart and mind equations would have been same then 

Misunderstandings kill relationship

If you think that you have a strong bond with your friend and which can never be broken, then you are living in an imaginary world. We are human beings, very sensitive in nature, hence a puny incident can be proved to be fatal to our strong relationship with our friends.  

Tenure of friendship does not matter when your mind starts getting feeling of distrust, misunderstanding, disrespect, arrogance, ignorance and irritation. When the happiness, love and care convert into stress, hate and frustration then it is the time that your relationship is going in lurch and demanding extra care and attention.

Lies are the foremost reason which gives birth to distrust. You might be lying to your friend so that you cannot hurt the emotions of your friend of doing the work which your friend does not like. On the other hand, your friend may feel that you have purposely concealed the information and now you do not trust your friend enough to share everything which you always used to do. This is the beginning of misunderstandings between two. Both of you may right at your place but in any case, it is not advisable to hide anything in a relationship.

We need to develop a faith to make the bond of friendship stronger. Be always clear, be truthful no matter what. This is the only way to avoid unnecessary confusions or tensions in a relationship. If you really want to have a lifelong relationship with your friend, then always stick to truth.

However, these relationships are mutual and efforts are required from both ends to maintain a blissful relationship. So, if you are trying and the other person is not responding then it is better to not push, just leave and move forward. It will be difficult for you but life is moving and you cannot freeze to one momement or event.

There is lot more to do in life and always keep a pace with life otherwise you will find yourself only be struggling. You have born to be happy and make others happy. Stick to your main task. Do not distract J.

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Be Original, Stay Confident!

Those who snatch things from others always have fear to lose. Those who create or invent are the most fearless people as they have the confidence to replicate.

Show the World Real You!

Emotions in you signify real you. Extreme anger, tears, and deep silence are the symbols that indicate you are not fine from within. When your attitude is rigid and your mind is full of negative thoughts, you react very differently. Perhaps, your mind is preoccupied with some conceptions or misconceptions which decide your behavior in a particular situation. Its influence on your mind is so deep that you are not in a condition to analyze any situation and react accordingly. Weather some things or suggestions are for your welfare, you always find one or the other negative point in it.

It is dangerous. You are not realizing but it is damaging you from inside. It is killing the real human being in you. If you do not stop it right away then soon it will convert in a habit which you would try hard but would not be able to change. Now the question is what one should do while going through such a situation. The first and foremost thing is to prepare yourself to come out of this phase of your life. Assure yourself that you have to get rid of these negative emotions and you have to become a happy person again.

To achieve the following state of mind, you have to do minor changes in you:
 Be Calm instead of Angry
Show Bright Eyes instead of Tears;
Be Expressive/ Responsive instead of Silent

However, one easy step is to never miss the opportunity to laugh. Open yourself and laugh out loud. No other therapy will heal you faster than the laughing remedy. As soon as you laugh, you release all negative energy outside your body and you feel extreme bliss. You actually feel lighter.

Another simple way is to communicate. Share your thinking with the one whom you trust most. Take the second opinion before reacting on anything. Listen to other people properly and respect their views as well. Do not pile up thoughts in your minds which are generated as per your own mindset. You need to understand the other person mindset also and take a mutual decision on any particular situation. This is because every person has its unique way of perceiving things and analyzing any situation. Your perception may differ from other person and here comes disagreement, distrust, and anger. To avoid such circumstances, you need to respect another person’s opinion too.

Also, engage your mind with some good activities and do not allow it to attract towards negativity. When you make yourself busy with things like reading, listening music, chit-chat with friends or colleague etc in this way you are giving room to healthy thoughts in your mind and the influence of positive thoughts will ultimately reduce or curtail negativity from your mind. Pull yourself towards social activities or gatherings because it is very important to change the environment around you when you are weak emotionally.

Expressing emotions in front of others is not wrong but the intensity of it decides whether you are normal or you are overreacting on something which is very general in nature. The only thing that you need to learn is to control yourself. Control your emotions; control your actions or reactions. Take a deep breath, think, analyze and then respond. Be Happy and take care of yourself. The World wants to see happy you.

New place…New Experiences…

I am truly enjoying the journey of my career. Every time when I plan to change my job, unlike others,I do not hesitate to change. In fact, I feel excited to meeting new faces and exploring new sources of knowledge. In seven years of my career span, I am happy to say that I have got enormous opportunities to meet so many people and feel myself lucky to have them in my life. Today, I have a strong network of friends from almost every part of the world and all credit goes to my job. I believe that we meet everybody for a reason. Every time when we meet new people, it is always to have new experiences and new knowledge sharing. Now, in Richa Industries, I hope that I will have best experiences of my life. Good Luck to me :)