Misunderstandings kill relationship

If you think that you have a strong bond with your friend and which can never be broken, then you are living in an imaginary world. We are human beings, very sensitive in nature, hence a puny incident can be proved to be fatal to our strong relationship with our friends.  

Tenure of friendship does not matter when your mind starts getting feeling of distrust, misunderstanding, disrespect, arrogance, ignorance and irritation. When the happiness, love and care convert into stress, hate and frustration then it is the time that your relationship is going in lurch and demanding extra care and attention.

Lies are the foremost reason which gives birth to distrust. You might be lying to your friend so that you cannot hurt the emotions of your friend of doing the work which your friend does not like. On the other hand, your friend may feel that you have purposely concealed the information and now you do not trust your friend enough to share everything which you always used to do. This is the beginning of misunderstandings between two. Both of you may right at your place but in any case, it is not advisable to hide anything in a relationship.

We need to develop a faith to make the bond of friendship stronger. Be always clear, be truthful no matter what. This is the only way to avoid unnecessary confusions or tensions in a relationship. If you really want to have a lifelong relationship with your friend, then always stick to truth.

However, these relationships are mutual and efforts are required from both ends to maintain a blissful relationship. So, if you are trying and the other person is not responding then it is better to not push, just leave and move forward. It will be difficult for you but life is moving and you cannot freeze to one momement or event.

There is lot more to do in life and always keep a pace with life otherwise you will find yourself only be struggling. You have born to be happy and make others happy. Stick to your main task. Do not distract J.

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