Misunderstandings kill relationship
If you think that you have a
strong bond with your friend and which can never be broken, then you are living
in an imaginary world. We are human beings, very sensitive in nature, hence a puny
incident can be proved to be fatal to our strong relationship with our friends.
Tenure of friendship does not
matter when your mind starts getting feeling of distrust, misunderstanding,
disrespect, arrogance, ignorance and irritation. When the happiness, love and
care convert into stress, hate and frustration then it is the time that your
relationship is going in lurch and demanding extra care and attention.
Lies are the foremost reason
which gives birth to distrust. You might be lying to your friend so that you
cannot hurt the emotions of your friend of doing the work which your friend
does not like. On the other hand, your friend may feel that you have purposely concealed
the information and now you do not trust your friend enough to share everything
which you always used to do. This is the beginning of misunderstandings between
two. Both of you may right at your place but in any case, it is not advisable
to hide anything in a relationship.
We need to develop a faith to
make the bond of friendship stronger. Be always clear, be truthful no matter
what. This is the only way to avoid unnecessary confusions or tensions in a
relationship. If you really want to have a lifelong relationship with your friend,
then always stick to truth.
However, these relationships are
mutual and efforts are required from both ends to maintain a blissful
relationship. So, if you are trying and the other person is not responding then
it is better to not push, just leave and move forward. It will be difficult for
you but life is moving and you cannot freeze to one momement or event.
There is lot more to do in life and
always keep a pace with life otherwise you will find yourself only be
struggling. You have born to be happy and make others happy. Stick to your main
task. Do not distract J.
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